Who are your heroes?I was asked that question in an interview once & it drove me absolutely crazy! At the time, I was pretty nervous & remember spewing some politically correct stupidity.
I got the job anyway. The interviewer, Sue, is now one of my closest friends & business associates.
Ever since she asked that annoying interview question, at least 8 years ago, I've been asking it of myself. The question has deeply effected my relationship with the world.
At first it was difficult - finding heroes. I didn't know how someone would qualify.
Hero seemed a big word for a mere mortal.
But, over the years, my definition of hero has evolved into something close to this modified version of Merriam Webster's:
- a person endowed with great strength or ability
- an illustrious warrior
- someone admired for his achievements and noble qualities
- one that shows great courage
- a person worthy of admiration
Armed with this definition, I've collected quite a few heroes along the way - People who have inspired me, whether through their strength, tenacity, creativity, bravery, authenticity, or any number of other qualities.
When I actually began to look for heroes, I found them everywhere!
What struck me as wonderful & odd was this:
While I was always surrounded by these incredible & inspiring individuals, I never noticed their heroism.
What I would notice in people prior to this search was their flaws, their faults, their human frailties.
The search for heroes, however, taught me to look into each individual to find their strengths. And strengths I found, despite human imperfection.
Is it possible that each person has the capacity to become a hero for another?
Could you be someone's hero?
Odds are, you ARE someone's hero - their inspiration.
This week, I encourage you to begin your own search for heroes, both universal & everyday heroes. Look hard -
- In the grocery store
- At school
- In the workplace
- At home
- In your churches or organizations
And for all those heroes of mine who are reading this post...If I haven't already said so, "THANKS!!"
Have a Super week!
Kim
1 comment:
Kim ~
As you must already know, you are one of my most significant heroes! I have watched you grow and blossom into someone with qualities many others strive to emulate. You are completely genuine and your depth of character is truly inspiring! For many years I have watched you consistently demonstrate a sincere care and concern for others and for making the world a better place. In fact, you care enough to challenge each of us to discover the best in ourselves, celebrate those qualities, and share them with others. What better contribution can one person make to the betterment of mankind? I am honored to know you!
-Sue
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